It never fails. The e-mails and forums, I have acceded to mothers around the world struggling to potty train their toddler son. I had great difficulty potty training my oldest son, Caleb. I was up to the point of depression. Caleb was just before his fourth birthday and it was time to close to Head Start Pre-K registration. The only thing he had to be potty trained! A few months before registration I finally succeeded, thanks to a dear friend of mine and its website.
Ipersonally tell you, I understand the frustration and the difficulties of potty training boys. Caleb was a good pee peeing in the pot for 2 1 / 2. But then, some important changes took place in our lives. His father and I separated, his sister went to live with her father, I lost my job, we moved, and then months later I had a small child.
So potty training was difficult and sometimes impossible to try. It was so embarrassing, albeit in a store and smell your son because he is aAccident. Caleb would play outside with the neighborhood kids, but then they would come knocking on my door, because Caleb had an accident.
I was frustrated, do not say anything. I felt like an incompetent mom. In fact, when I was in the middle of a custody battle for my youngest son, his father mocked me about the issue of my Caleb is not potty trained. Some days he acted as if he were not, or it did not bother him to have to pull a dirty.
My dear friend, Janicehas been working with small children for most of her adult life and their own two grown boys. You have successfully potty trained hundreds of children with autistic and developmentally delayed children.
When I had to fight, Janice came up to me and assured me that Caleb would be potty trained. I felt so far as to believe that he would, however, disappeared. But if I felt ready and Caleb was, I did not go. And on a weekend, Caleb has been successfully potty trained!
What I do not seeis that it takes patience, sometimes a large part of it through the potty training process. With my son, Caleb, I have no patience. I was angry and frustrated. Shortly after he was potty trained and the school was entered, tests in school Caleb had multiple developmental delays. Very likely that a large part of his delay played in potty training. Parents of autistic remain developmentally delayed or disabled children especially with it. Tantrums, regression andHappen to be frustration. Parents need to learn to let her go and stay positive.
Easier said than done, right? There are to be good days and bad days. One thing to remember is that when you are angry, frustrated, disappointed, and your child will pick up on, dass If you are a who prays or meditates make it a habit to do so in the morning, the middle of the day and night. Do something (s) that you can relax and stay calm.
Having support is great too.However, there are people like me, potty training without assistance, until the end. The best way is to ensure that you and your child are ready for this milestone, before you try it.
Pushing will be able to cause outrage, but things will slow regression and even longer. Wait until your child shows interest in well with the potty. Also during the process, your focus will be on the child. If you have educated other children, the potty, help them. My son is now CalebHis big brother, Hunter, will turn three very quickly. Hunter is in the middle of showing interest in the potty.
Once potty training has succeeded, there are no diapers to spend more money, or smell the garbage and the house! Accidents can happen, but it will get better. Potty is a milestone, let your child know that they do things on their own will. It also means that you more freedom, things will have to do with your child.
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